bad ideas i have had, by kal, age 38
Jan. 27th, 2011 10:10 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
kalmnso, one of my tweeps (who can identify themselves here if they want) is currently talking about dating coworkers and how it can go badly.
which makes me curious about how many people other than me have done it, and how many people other than me have done it repeatedly.
coworker one: together for nineish years, most of which was spent married, worked together when i asked him out, worked together for about two years i think, relationship was in fine shape through all of that and didn't end until years later.
coworker two: together for about two and a half years, worked together for most of that time which included me getting hired where he worked during the very early WE'RE NOT DATING I SWEAR parts, proximate cause of the relationship ending was me getting another job.
coworker three: barely counts! i asked him out, we went out for about six weeks, he decided i wasn't the woman he wanted to spend his life with, i thought briefly and snarkily about couldn't we have more meaningless sex before you decided that, we're still work-friends.
i don't have a paid account anywhere, so no polls for me. all essay questions all the time! you will be graded on length.
which makes me curious about how many people other than me have done it, and how many people other than me have done it repeatedly.
coworker one: together for nineish years, most of which was spent married, worked together when i asked him out, worked together for about two years i think, relationship was in fine shape through all of that and didn't end until years later.
coworker two: together for about two and a half years, worked together for most of that time which included me getting hired where he worked during the very early WE'RE NOT DATING I SWEAR parts, proximate cause of the relationship ending was me getting another job.
coworker three: barely counts! i asked him out, we went out for about six weeks, he decided i wasn't the woman he wanted to spend his life with, i thought briefly and snarkily about couldn't we have more meaningless sex before you decided that, we're still work-friends.
i don't have a paid account anywhere, so no polls for me. all essay questions all the time! you will be graded on length.
